Take it easy, to make it easy.
It’s snowing. A lot.

I can either look at it as an obstacle to the flow of my life, including shoveling snow and cancelling appointments. Or I can look at it as a really beautiful day to stay home, indoors, and make soup, and enjoy the security of my home. No matter how I look at it, I can’t change the reality of knee-deep snow and more coming.

Have you ever thought about what it means to “take it hard”? We usually apply it to death or some disaster or upheaval in our lives. But it’s really about attitude. It’s about judging an occurrence in reality and the emotional label you paste on it. If you “take it hard” it’s a pain, a burden, even a disaster. But oddly enough, and we almost never look at it this way, to “take it easy” is really the exact opposite. It’s not about relaxing. It’s about the judgment you put on an occurrence in reality and how you allow it to impact your life, the flow of your reality.

If I take it easy my life isn’t entirely screwed up by bad weather. If I take it easy, the death of a loved one is a loss to me but a joyful release for them. If I take it easy, I’m not sick and angry over something bad that’s happened. I can look for alternatives. If I take it easy, an obstacle becomes a challenge. And a challenge is a gift to prove I can do better, find a way around.

No, of course it’s not easy, to learn to take it easy. But if I take it easy today, then I get to go out and have some fun shoveling snow. And the appointments can wait till we’re shoveled out. And it’s not like I don’t have plenty to do at home today. And I’ve just made my whole to-do list a whole lot easier.